Tuesday, 27 July 2010

What is true love?

A girl once asked a boy: "What is true Love?"
The boy replied: "Well, that has to be a love where you are willing to die for the other". To this, the girl nodded her head, then slowly shook her head. "Then what do you think true Love is?"
"Love is a habit", the girl smiled "When you become accustomed to the habits of another person in life, then you really love that person."
"Love is when one person is comfortable with another person's habits. For example: A woman is used to sleeping with her husband's snoring, so much that when there isn't a snoring, she can't sleep; A man gets used to all a woman's jealousy, pouting and even her temper. That is true love."
"A person can adjust to another person's habits, or even change themselves for the other. That is true love."
"When you find yourself not being able to stand another person's habits, then you may not truly love them or you don't love them enough."
"If you are used to someone's habit so much, you will even like the cigarrette smell on their clothes; or their clean shirts; or them getting up in the middle of the night to watch football."
So don't ever ask such a stupid question as "what is true love" again.
Some people say: "It's not that you love him...it's you love the days with him"
Being perfectly in tune with another person, is the truest love.

There are also sayings that true love is the ability to "Let go"
There was once a girl, who was involved in a car accident and was then in a coma for four years.
Eventually when she opens her eyes and faces the new world again, she has lost all her memories. But standing next to her she sees a man flaked with snow-white hair, to whom she says "Papa!" and happily embraces him.
Over the next few months, she recovers well under the attentive care of her father. And following her physiotherapy, she slowly begins to walk again. During this time...she notices a protected folder on her old computer, but she can no longer remember the password to access it and so takes little notice of it.
Four months later...she starts her new job. Her colleagues are all encouraging to her and friendly. In particular, there is one guy whom she feels particularly attached to. He always helps her around the office, and cheers her on when she is feeling defeated...she finds herself slowly falling in love with him and he also returns her affections.
By the end of the year, he eventually proposes to her and she accepts happily taking him along to meet her father to gain permission.
Her father simply asks "Do you truly love him?". She happily nods in agreement. "Very well...we shall prepare for your wedding" and slowly walks away to his room.
On the day of her wedding, her fiance rushes to her in the dressing room, holding an old piece of news paper. There was an article titled: 'Family of three meets a tragic car accident'....and the photo is of her....and her "Papa"....her faded memories begin to spin before her...She rushes to her old computer and types in the password correctly this time. A window opens containing photos of her and her "Papa"; anyone could tell from the happiness on their faces that they were in love...
Realisation hits her...the very person who had loved her, waited for her for four years, and cared for her was her "Papa". And he had silently endured her loss of memories, her change of heart. What pain must he have gone through when seeing her wear a beautiful white wedding gown....but to marry a person other than himself?
For her happiness, he had let go of her, told her to forget his love...that is true love.

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